"Some Tips for you dear"

Things that i do and you should also do because i care about you. :)

• Don't let the past blackmail your present to ruin a beautiful future.
• Don't forget, life teaches the hardest lessons to the softest hearts.
• Listen to all but make your own decision what you want.
• Remember, You are stronger than your problems.
• You are neither loser nor failure.
• Keep your life private.
• Don't express yourself to anyone.
• Choose your people wisely.
• Don't waste yourself to think about past mistakes. let them go 
• Take good care to your mental health.
• It's never too late, never.
• And don't forget to smile bacause..

(YOU ARE STAR OF YOUR OWN UNIVERSE) 

                                                                                  DS

"The Weight of Waiting"

There was a village surronded by many green trees and bushes, and whisper of winds. a boy named Affi, grew up in a small and beautiful home. Affi's had his four sisters and who filled the house with love and laughter and a widowed mother who carried the weight of their battles with elegance. When affi grew older, his dream of a brighter future was burning in his heart. he decided to leave his home and move far away for chasing openings with tearful goodbyes. his mother and sisters saw him off, their eyes shinning with trust. his mother whispered "Do well my son and never forget where your heart belongs". 

Affi worked tirelessly in the bustling city. days turned into weeks, weeks into months, months into years, years into decades. he sent money back home regularly, believing it would ease their struggles, he wanted to build a new life,a life where his family could live without worry. But in his pursuit of a better tomorrow, Affi forgot the present. His sisters grew older, their laughter fading as they missed their brother. His mother, her health slowly declining, found solace only in memories of a time when their family was whole. 

Letters from home spoke of their longing for him, but Affi always replied, “Soon. When things are better, I’ll return.” The city, with its towering buildings and endless noise, grew lonelier for Affi. He missed the scent of his mother’s cooking, the sound of his sisters’ chatter, the simplicity of home. Yet he kept pushing forward, thinking, Just a little longer. One day, a letter arrived. It wasn’t from his family but from a neighbor. It carried the news that his mother had fallen gravely ill. Affi dropped everything and rushed back to the village, his heart pounding with regret.

When he arrived, the house was the same, but the warmth was different. His sisters greeted him with tears, their faces both joyous and sorrowful. His mother lay on her bed, her once-strong hands now frail. She smiled when she saw him, her eyes filled with love and relief.“I always knew you’d come back,” she whispered weakly. “But remember, Affi, life isn’t just about what you can give. It’s about being present for those you love.”

 

That night, as Affi sat by her side, he realized the truth he had ignored for so long: time and togetherness were the greatest gifts. He had paid a high price for his dreams, one that no amount of money could ever balance.

From that day on, Affi chose differently. He stayed with his family, finding ways to work nearby. Life wasn’t perfect, but it was full of love, laughter, and the warmth of being together. And in their humble home, Affi finally found the peace he had been searching for all along.

                                                                DS

"You Can"

 

STOP!

You have to stop.

 I know you are tired, i know you are feeling low, i know it's getting heavier day by day.

 Just breath.. you have to take a pause and breath.. Allow yourself to breath, just close your eyes.

Give yourself permission to stop, to release, to renew, to think.

I know sometimes it feels impossible, but it's not trust me it's not... You can do this (you can). 

Sometimes the weight you need to let go of is not in your shoulders but in your mind.

We all have different level of sensitivity. if it hurts, it hurts. Remember that you don't have to give explaination to anyone.

Because,

one morning  you will breath just like you used to without any heaviness.

DS

"Deazi's Midnight Wish"

Once upon a time, in village nestled near a magical forest, there lived a girl named Deazi. Deazi was known for her long flowing black hair, she lived with her mother in a cozy little cottage, But her siblings Affi, her older brother, and her elder sisters Anna, Sehr, and Abbi were far away, pursuing their dreams in distant lands. Though she missed them deeply, Deazi carried them in her heart, cherishing every memory and letter they sent her way. Deazi was incredibly resilient and hardworking. She managed the household herself, cooking, cleaning, and tending to the garden that provided them with food, all while looking after her mother. Her kindness was a glow in the village, and her laughter a melody, so that even though she was mostly alone. Deazi's black hair was her pride, as dark as the night but soft and warm like her spirit. People often said she was like Rapunzel, but instead of being trapped in a tower, she chose to stay in the cottage to care for her mother. She waited with hope in her heart for the day when her siblings would visit, filling the house with love and laughter once again. One evening, while Deazi was gathering herbs in the forest, She spotted a flicker of light down the path. As she drew closer, she heard familiar voices Affi, Anna, Sehr, and Abbi! Her siblings had returned, bringing stories, gifts, and the warmth of family. Deazi's heart swelled with joy, and for that night, the little cottage was alive with love, laughter, and the bond that even distance could never break. And from that day on, whenever Deazi missed her siblings, she remembered that love could bridge any distance and that no matter where they were, they were always with her.

                                                             DS

"The Price of Putting Yourself Last"

 Lets talk, 

Today i will tell you my experience about self-love that how much important it is. Not loving yourself, prioritizing others over yourself and turns into all that is wrong in your life it turns into anxiety, depression and stress because the reason behind is that you need to love yourself more. Here are some things that i suffured and u may also so read carefully:

Without self-love it is so hard to recognize your value and worthiness. You may seek validation from others you would always struggle with low self esteem. on the other hand a lack of Low self-worth may cause you to hold on to toxic or unhealthy  relationships, prioritizing others needs over your own. this cycle of self sacrifice can breed frastration and reliance, keeping you stuck in a cycle of unbalanced and harmful relationships. furthermore, you may feel lost, directionless or unsure of what you truly want from your life. 

Neglecting self-care can make it difficult to maintain motivation and focus. When self-love is lacking, setting meaningful goals or feeling inspired to pursue them may feel out of reach. Self-neglect often affects physical health too. When self-care isn’t prioritized, it’s common to skip exercise, make poor dietary choices, or overlook symptoms of illness. Over time, this pattern can lead to physical issues like chronic fatigue, digestive disturbances, and even more serious health complications.

DS